Chantilly — When I was 3 years old my father encouraged me to be on the swim team, even if I was afraid of sharks being in the pool. He supported my idea of being a mermaid when I grew up. When I was 6 years old he took me to every karate practice, even though I gave up after the yellow belt. When I was 11 years old, he encouraged me to join the volleyball team. He was the only one that came to cheer me on at practices and games; I quit the team after three months. When I was 16 years old, he handed me the car keys, even though I was scared of other drivers. When I was 18 years old, my father encouraged me to go out and get a job, even if I was afraid of rejection.
In the Holy Quran, it states: “The Lord has decreed that you worship none save Him alone, and behave beneficently towards parents. If either or both of them should attain old age while you are alive, say not ‘ugh’ to them, nor chide them, and speak kindly to them. Lower to them the wing of humility out of tenderness and pray: Lord have mercy upon them as they brought me up when I was little. (17:25)”
I believe that fathers are the backbone and support of a family. A father is someone you will always be able to rely on. Any fear or doubt that pops up into your head, your father can relieve it. Fathers have this magical ability to make sure everything is safe and sound. Reflect this Father’s Day and think about the support he has offered you and the sacrifices he has made for you just to see a smile on your face.
Loving daughter,
Saba Amjad, Chantilly